Sunday October 5, 2003 | Dwayne Polk
25 Large crowds were traveling with Jesus, and turning to them he said: 26 “If anyone comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters—yes, even life itself—such a person cannot be my disciple. 27 And whoever does not carry their cross and follow me cannot be my disciple.
28 “Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won't you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it? 29 For if you lay the foundation and are not able to finish it, everyone who sees it will ridicule you, 30 saying, 'This person began to build and wasn't able to finish.'
31 “Or suppose a king is about to go to war against another king. Won't he first sit down and consider whether he is able with ten thousand men to oppose the one coming against him with twenty thousand? 32 If he is not able, he will send a delegation while the other is still a long way off and will ask for terms of peace. 33 In the same way, those of you who do not give up everything you have cannot be my disciples.
Dwayne Polk’s message this week continued in the line of Greg’s ongoing focus on discipleship this year. Polk described the decision whether or not to follow Christ as a “choice of critical significance.”
Dwayne Polk’s message this week continued in the line of Greg’s ongoing focus on discipleship this year. In 21st century American society, we find ourselves living in a culture that is submerged in the need to have choice, and the consumerism that arises from that perceived need. As Greg taught earlier this year, whether we know it or not, this culture negatively influences many of the things that we do in life, even our lives and identities in the Christian faith. Brother Polk asked us to recognize this truth and, at the same time, to consider what it means to make the choice to follow Jesus Christ. Using the scripture text Luke 14:25-33, Polk described the decision whether or not to follow Christ as a “choice of critical significance.” Two things characterize this type of choice. First, the choice’s importance demands that a person must realistically count the costs involved to make sure that the person can do what the decision requires. Second, the choice, once made, may significantly limit, or even remove, the amount of options that will be open to a person in the future. Brother Polk used the decision to marry as an example of what a “critically significant choice” looks like. The decision whether or not to enter marital covenant is an extremely important choice that demands that both people understand the monogamous and dedicated nature of that covenant and that both people are willing to make such a commitment. Unfortunately, just like some of us can rush into marriage without fully “counting the costs” and considering the requirements of marriage, some of us can rush into the decision to be a disciple of Christ without fully considering what costs are involved and what may be required of us. A way to prevent this is to talk about what some of those “costs” are and see where we stand on those costs.
Discipleship, as is everything in the Christian life, is founded upon love. Brother Polk reminded us of Greg’s earlier teaching that discipleship is the concrete manifestation of love. We are not only commanded by God to radically love God and love the neighbor as ourselves (Mark 12:30-31), but we are also told by Jesus that love is to be our distinctive mark of being his disciples (John 13:31-35). Because we are both commanded and called by God to be a people of radical love, radical love is a non-negotiable foundation of Christian discipleship. If we make the decision to become a disciple of Christ, loving God and our neighbor is no longer a matter of choice. God commands this. Polk further specified three distinct things that followed from non-negotiable love within Christian discipleship. These aspects of Christian love, he stated, were things that had been topics of sermons from Greg and Efrem Smith earlier this year. They are: