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Study Guide: Party Crasher

Sunday January 25, 2015 | Greg Boyd

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Brief Summary:

We continue our short series on Women on the Outside this week by looking at the moving story of a prostitute who anoints the feet of Jesus with perfume and how we can learn much from how Jesus saw and responded to that woman.


Extended Summary:

Our Women on the Outside series has focused on the importance of taking the perspective of the outsider as most of the Bible focuses on the perspective of the loser, loner and outsider. In this story in the Gospel of Luke we find Jesus at a dinner with Pharisees and He is lying down on the floor, as was the dining custom in the ancient world. The context makes it clear that Jesus is invited to this dinner so the religious leaders of the day can try and trap him.

A woman who has “lived a sinful life” (most commentators believe this is a euphemism for this woman being a prostitute) approaches Jesus with, most likely, one of the tools of her trade of prostitution, an alabaster jar of perfume. This is, in all likelihood, one of the most expensive things this woman owns and the odor of the perfume would have been used to allure men to her. In her love for Jesus she anoints his feet and mops of his feet with her hair (the hair of a woman was her glory in the ancient world).

In the context of a meal with Pharisees, this act would be seen as a scandal. In the 1st century no woman was supposed to have anything to do with a man that was not her husband (no talking, touching, etc.). This is what gets Simon the Pharisee so incensed. This woman has now just performed, what could be construed as a sensual act, on Jesus and raises questions about Jesus’ character but also raises questions about the reputations of the Pharisees (known as the guardians of truth and righteousness). The Pharisees now move into damage control to make sure their own reputation are not sullied.

Jesus interacts with this woman in very unexpected ways that teach us how to interact with the rest of the world. Greg made three points that are critical: 1) In contrast to the Pharisees, Jesus looked at this woman made in the image of God and saw someone he was willing to give his life for. The way Jesus, and God (Hebrews 1:3) looks at us communicates love, worth and significance. God’s love for us infinitely outruns any ethical opinions he has about our behavior. 2) Jesus isn’t just our model of how God sees us, we are to IMITATE how Jesus looked at this prostitute. And this should apply to how we see ALL people. The same religious spirit that would cause us to see God as the cosmic Pharisee also conditions us to see others with Pharisee eyes. We see categories rather than people and we just evaluate people. Jesus calls us to throw off all the chains of religion. 3) Your love for God will never outrun your appreciation for being forgiven. The degree to which you think you have less to be forgiven than anyone else who has ever existed, so the true love of God will be cut off from you since you won’t be able to experience that love. The only way to come to God is to come to God as the worst of the sinners. We need to show up to God as the prostitute (1 Timothy 1:15).


Reflection Questions:

  1. Who do you immediately identify with more in this story, the prostitute or the Pharisee?
  2. The woman in this story didn’t hesitate about bringing her most precious possession to show her love for Jesus. What are you hesitating to bring to Jesus because it feels too precious to let go of?
  3. Is your context and personal story one where you see God as a cosmic Pharisee? What would it look like to start to see Him like the picture of Jesus in this story? Does it worry you for Jesus to see you as you really are inside?
  4. What group of people are you prone to see as a category rather than real people?
  5. Do people feel more fully alive because they are hanging out with you or do you communicate your ethical opinion of them?
  6. Do you see yourself as the “worst of all sinners” (as Paul notes in 1 Timothy 1:15)? How could this perspective on your sin help you to live with more gratitude?

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