Topics – Faith, Prayer, Spiritual Warfare, Free Will, God's Will
Why does it seem like some prayers work while others don’t give us the results we want? If our prayers don’t seem to work, who is to blame? God? Ourselves? Others? To begin to understand prayer, we must break free from a simplistic and commonly held “magical view” of prayer. There are many variables that affect prayer and faith and how they work together.
Focus Scripture – Luke 11:5-13HIDESHOW
5 Then Jesus said to them, "Suppose you have a friend, and you go to him at midnight and say, 'Friend, lend me three loaves of bread; 6 a friend of mine on a journey has come to me, and I have nothing to set before him.' 7 And suppose the one inside answers, 'Don't bother me. The door is already locked, and my children and I are in bed. I can't get up and give you anything.' 8 I tell you, even though he will not get up and give you the bread because of friendship, yet because of your shameless audacity he will surely get up and give you as much as you need.
9 "So I say to you: Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. 10 For everyone who asks receives; those who seek find; and to those who knock, the door will be opened.
11 "Which of you fathers, if your son asks for a fish, will give him a snake instead? 12 Or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion? 13 If you then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!"
9 "So I say to you: Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. 10 For everyone who asks receives; those who seek find; and to those who knock, the door will be opened.
11 "Which of you fathers, if your son asks for a fish, will give him a snake instead? 12 Or if he asks for an egg, will give him a scorpion? 13 If you then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!"
Extended SummaryHIDESHOW
A magical view of prayer will lead people to blame God, themselves or others for prayers that look like they have failed. In order to deconstruct this common way of praying, one needs to see some of the variables that affect prayer.
And this is why we can’t ordinarily know why in response to prayer Suzie gets an egg and Johnny seems to get a scorpion, which is why we can’t say the scorpion was God’s fault or Johnny’s fault.
- God’s Will. First of all, God wants us to pray according to His will. God is not a cosmic Santa Claus to whom we send up our lists of wants.
- The Laws of Nature. God created the universe to operate according to predictable laws. God’s goal in creation is for people to learn how to love and make morally responsible choices. If we lived in a magical world where God adjust laws every time we wanted him to, nothing would be predictable and relating would be impossible. We could never learn how to love or become morally responsible.
- Faith of the Person Praying. According to Heb. 11:1-2, “Faith is the substance (hupostasis) of things hoped for, the conviction (elegkos) of things unseen. This is what the ancients were commended for.” Faith is embracing a mental picture of something you hope for, like a substantial reality (hupostasis) and therefore having a conviction (elegkos) that it will be so. We concretely envisioning something about the future we believe is God’s will and moving towards it. But it’s NOT psychological certainty.
- People are Free Agents. You can pray with faith (vision and conviction) about something, but that doesn’t take away the free will of others that are related to the prayer.
- The Strength and Number of the Opposition. Since we live in a spiritual war zone, we’re up against forces of evil when we pray. The strength and number of those forces affects the outcome.
- The Strength and Number of Support. There is power in numbers.
And this is why we can’t ordinarily know why in response to prayer Suzie gets an egg and Johnny seems to get a scorpion, which is why we can’t say the scorpion was God’s fault or Johnny’s fault.
Reflection QuestionsHIDESHOW
- What is your biggest question about unanswered prayer?
- Are you more likely to blame God, blame yourself or blame others for failed prayers?
- Read Hebrews 11:1. How can having faith be turned into a misleading magic formula for prayer?
- If faith is about having a conviction and not having certainty, what role does faith have in prayer?
- Is there a situation in your life where you need a new vision and conviction? Will you share this with the group for prayer?