Topics – Identity in Christ, Kingdom of God, Transformation
Focus Scripture – HIDESHOW
34 Jesus answered, "Can you make the friends of the bridegroom fast while he is with them? 35 But the time will come when the bridegroom will be taken from them; in those days they will fast."
36 He told them this parable: "No one tears a piece out of a new garment to patch an old one. If they do, they will have torn the new garment, and the patch from the new will not match the old. 37 And people do not pour new wine into old wineskins. If they do, the new wine will burst the skins; the wine will run out and the wineskins will be ruined. 38 No, new wine must be poured into new wineskins. 39 And none of you, after drinking old wine, wants the new, for you say, 'The old is better.' "
Extended SummaryHIDESHOW
- Love of the Old: This occurs when people are marked by being "creatures of habit" who identify so heavily with their past habits and patterns that they find it hard to move towards anything new, even within relationships.
- Love of the New and the Next: This occurs when people are so attracted by novelty and excitement that contentment and discipline are less and less possible over time. They identify heavily with being able to move from one thing to the next, sometimes with little consistency.
Reflection QuestionsHIDESHOW
- How would you say that you relate to new experiences or ideas? Do you embrace them fairly quickly, or do you take a lot of time to embrace them?
- What are some things that are really exciting and positive about change that can disrupt one's life? What are some things that are quite challenging and frustrating about change that can disrupt one's life?
- Think about your growing relationship with God. What is one way that God has radically altered your way of seeing the world, since you began relating to God?
- Many of us may have a "love for the new and the next" while we do not know it. What are some possible examples in your own life that may be indicators of this potential temptation?
- What are some habits or tendencies that you would like to open up to Jesus for radical change? What are some of the practical commitments that you believe will help you create this openness?